Wednesday, May 27, 2009

I'M BACK - TEEN PARTY IDEAS!!


Our Daughter's Birthday Party (she's the sweetie on the right). . . and . . . All I can say is "thank God for antibiotics!!"

My sinuses have returned to normal and I'm back rolling again. . . :)

I wanted to share with you the idea I had for our youngest daughter's 15th birthday party. So many of you e-mailed and asked me the "details" of how we pulled this off so I just thought I'd post it for everyone.
I'm telling you. . . it was a huge, huge HIT!!!! I even had mothers telling me the following week what a great time their daughters had and what a neat idea it was. So my daughter thinks her mom is pretty cool right now. Neat huh?


We had an updated Scavenger Hunt party for the technical savvy kids of this generation. Long gone are the envelopes with the clues and the next hints, neighborhood door knocking or road rallies with this generation.

Oh no, this generation is a cell phone, texting generation. So that's what we used. We had two teams with 4 girls on each team. Each team used one cell phone, per team. Not a problem, all the girls had one. We just picked one to use.

This is what we did. My daughter picked her (and her friend's) favorite outdoor mall (you could pick an indoor one too, same difference). I obtained in advance a directory of the stores so I would know all the store names.

I then came up with clues to help the girls determine which store we were referring to. I'll give you a few examples later in this post.

The morning of the party, I texted these clues to my husband's and my phones. Hint: I'm not a fast texter so I got on-line with AT&T, our cell phone provider, got into our account and texted (typed) the clues this way. (Did you all know that you could do this? I just found it out by chance myself.) Since I'm a way faster typer than a texter, this was a breeze. This was our daughter's only concern. . . "Mom, Dad, you're soooo slow texting we'll be waiting forever for our next clues!" She's right. So I solved that little problem by doing it in advanced and on-line. Then all we did was hit forward on our already typed in clue to the team's cell phone.

Next issue, how could we be sure one group of girls would not just find a seat, figure out the clues, without running around the mall???? We needed proof. So, I purchased two disposal cameras. One for each team. A clue would be sent out and they would text back an answer. Either "No" would be texted back with an little cheat added help clue so they would have to brainstorm again, or the next clue if they had guessed correctly. But, they had to take a picture of the correct store on the camera, with 3 out of 4 girls in it. The 4th one would be taking the picture so 3 would have to be in the picture . . . with the store sign in the background. They rotated who took the pictures each time so we have photos of everyone.

My husband started at the bottom of the list of clues. I started at the top so they would not be running to the same stores at the same time. We had 15 clues in total.

The girls arrived at our house, we had pizza, pop, etc. Then I explained the rules. I had each girl write her name on a piece of paper, fold it and place it in a bowl. I didn't want any of "I want so and so on my team," "Can I be with. . .?" to make anyone feel slighted, ya know??? I had my husband draw one name at a time and divide them into two piles.

Two groups formed; passed out cameras; secured their cell numbers; assigned one group to me, one to hubs; gave them our cell numbers. My husband drove his group, I drove mine and away we went to the mall. We parked next to each other, got our groups to the entrance and sent them their first text at the exact same time. Fair is fair.

And away they went.

Hubs and I found a Starbucks and sent out clues.

This went seamlessly, effortlessly. It was so much fun for the girls. The first team done, of course won. We came back to our house for waffle bowl ice cream sundaes and cupcakes. Gift bags were passed out and our daughter opened her presents from her friends. I had gone to Bath & Body Works and got items for two sets of gift bags. The winner's bags had a little nicer items. I also dipped 5 pretzel rods each in white chocolate and sprinkles for their bags. I think these were gone before anyone left our house!!

I stopped at Walgreen's on the way home from the mall to drop off the cameras. I had the 1-hour photos developed and ordered a CD of each group of pictures. I have Roxio software (legal and available at Walmart) and copied a CD for each of the girls to take home in their gift bags.

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Here's a sampling of our clues for you: bold font is the answer/store

If you're taking a test and you don't know an answer to a question you would: GUESS

A resident of Paris would be called a: Parisian

A space between some one's two front teeth is called a: GAP

You must be this age to legally have an alcoholic drink: Forever 21

This is where you would go to see your favorite Hollywood stars: MJR Movies

If you want to fly in an airplane, but don't fly first class . . . you fly: Coach

"Make that a double shot of espresso with extra whipped cream - grande size!" : Starbucks

You wouldn't eat using normal silverware here: P.F. Changs

Shhh!! You can't tell anyone: Victoria's Secret

This is so much fun for a teen birthday party. Our daughter and her friends are all 15 and thought this party rocked. It is soooo much better than a dreaded sleepover moms. Yes, they all went home at 11:00 pm. Heaven. I slept well ;)

If you have any questions, just e-mail me.

Blessings. . . until next time,

10 comments:

Judi said...

Woo-hoo I love it Sher! No wonder you are a rock star mom right now!
Listen...if you're not doing anything (yeah, right)....I'm looking for some ideas for a grad party/18th b-day invite for my daughter's celebration in July. We have been receiving so many of the typical grad party invites this year (photo cards, etc) that I really want to do something fun and personal (with a pix of her). I want it to be special and fun and personal and not costly. So, if you have any thoughts or examples or sites to check...let me know. I've done numerous invites for parties, showers, even a wedding or two....so, I do have lots of different softwares. But, I just want a neat idea. If you have any tucked away in your very creative mind....SHARE (SHER!)
Hope all is well there with your oldest daughter starting off on her new adventure. And, I sure do pray that mom is doing okay!
BTW--who are the RED WINGS?
;-)
Judi

Cherdecor said...

That sounds like a fun party for a 15 year old! You had to really work to plan that one.

Darlene - Our Creative Life said...

That's a great party idea Sher! I did something similar for my daughter's 12th birthday, but instead it was a scavenger hunt at a mall.
I like your idea and my other daughter is turning 13 in January and I would love to do this, but we don't have those great stores at our mall.
This past birthday we did a mystery party and that was a big hit!

southerninspiration said...

Great idea! I am sure it was a blast!

Suzanne

Brenda Eason said...

Sher it must be sweet having you as a mom. Great party and I know the girls had a blast.

black eyed susans kitchen said...

Very clever! Love this idea and will not doubt steal it in some way. Hope things have settled down a little.
♥, Susan

Scooterblu's Whimsy~Rhonda said...

Great idea, Sher! Sounds like loads of fun! And your daughter is gorgeous! Hope she had a wonderful birthday! ~hugs, Rhonda :)

Bo said...

Hi Sher! I've missed visiting your blog since I've been on break...
Wow, you are a COOL Mom...this sounds like a lot of fun even for adults too...Your daughter is one beautiful young lady...Hopefully, after our trip to Colorado I'll be back in the blogging groove...
See ya later, ;-) Bo

Designs on 47th Street said...

First of all let me say your daugther is cute as a bug's ear (don't tell her I said it that way! ha!)

Second of all, yes YOU Rock! what a great party. It is fun to hear how things are being done these days since my youngest is 26. We still did the envelopes and knocking on doors. Very, very intersting and so cleaver!

I know it was a hit and so glad everyone had fun.

Justabeachkat said...

What a creative and fun idea! You rock as a Mom! Your daughter is beautiful.